SOMATIC HEALING INSTITUTE
The Intimacy
Reset
WITH ANGEL DRAKE
Introducing:
The Intimacy Reset
Couples have always faced the natural seasons of life: career, parenting, caregiving, shifting hormones.
It’s no surprise that intimacy can slip into the background.
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But something deeper is happening now.
We’re living in the social media age of constant stimulation and comparison.
Where curated perfection floods our feeds, and the pressure to "have it all together" masks the longing for more inside our relationships.
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And now, with the rise of AI, we stand on the edge of a strange new world.
One where we talk more to machines than to the humans we love.
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This is not just a cultural shift.
It’s a nervous system crisis.
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Because intimacy isn’t a luxury.
It’s not just about sex.
It’s not just “nice to have.”
It’s how we stay alive, connected, and resilient in this ever changing landscape.
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Co-regulating with someone you trust, breath to breath, heart to heart, body to body, is foundational to your health, happiness, and even your longevity.
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Yet right now...
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Divorce rates continue to climb.
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Most couples who do stay together stop making love.
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And millions feel quietly alone… right next to the person they love most.
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Why?
Because no one ever taught us how to transition.
How to move from stress, logistics, and the grind of everyday life…
into the erotic aliveness that intimacy requires.
How do you shift from “task mode” to “touch mode”?
From parenting or caregiving into presence?
From “I’m so tired” to “I want to be close”?
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👉 That’s what The Intimacy Reset is here to guide you through.
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"I CAME TO ANGEL BECAUSE I WAS FEELING SO LOST IN MY SEX LIFE WITH MY PARTNER. WE WERE JUST GOING THROUGH THE MOTIONS, NEITHER OF US SATISFIED, AND I HAD NO IDEA HOW TO COMMUNICATE AROUND SUCH A VULNERABLE TOPIC.
NOW, MY PARTNER AND I ARE THE MOST CONNECTED WE’VE EVER BEEN. I CAN COMMUNICATE WHAT I WANT IN THE BEDROOM, ASK FOR HELP, AND SAY YES TO PLEASURE AND SPONTANEITY AGAIN. WE ARE THRIVING IN THE MOST HONEST AND OPEN VERSION OF OUR RELATIONSHIP YET."
Courtney Chambers
I Created This
Because I Needed It Too.
For over a decade, I’ve supported women and couples.
Hundreds of thousands of women online, retreats all over the world,
countless hours coaching women and couples.
Helping them reclaim their sensuality, deepen their intimacy, and return to their wild, radiant selves.
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But after the birth of my son…
my husband and I began to drift.
We were teammates, but not lovers.
Present, but disconnected.
We needed a way back in or despite how much we loved each other...
we weren't going to make it.
We needed a path from roommates back to lovers.
So I created it.
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We pressed play, relaxed into the structure, and slowly found our way back to each other.
Not just to sex but to feeling close again.
To wanting full body intimacy again.
Now, 18 months into parenthood, we are more connected than we’ve ever been.
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If we can do it, you can too.​​​​
3 Guided Practices
SIMPLE AND POWERFUL TO HELP YOU:
TRANSITION OUT OF THE STRESS LOOP
RECONNECT WITH YOUR BODY AND YOUR PARTNER.
REDISCOVER PRESENCE, PLAY AND PASSION TOGETHER
THE INVITATION
No pressure.
No performance.
Just guidance you can lean into, together.
It all starts with one moment of courage.
One small “yes” to doing something different.
To getting the support you actually deserve.
You don’t need to do this alone.
Let’s learn together.
What I want every couple to know is that...
You’re Not Broken.
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You've juste never been shown how.
We were never meant to do this alone.
We were never built for this much pressure.
And no one handed us the tools for lasting intimacy.
So let go of the idea that it should just "come naturally".
That you should “just know” how to keep the spark alive.
You don’t ... and that’s okay.
Because intimacy isn’t automatic.
It’s a skill.
And skills can be learned.
"I HAD BEEN STRUGGLING TO FEEL CONNECTED PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY WITH MY PARTNER FOR QUITE SOME TIME. I ALWAYS FELT LIKE THE BROKEN PIECE OF OUR RELATIONSHIP NOT WANTING TO ENGAGE IN INTIMACY, BELIEVING SOMETHING WAS WRONG WITH ME.
IT WASN’T UNTIL DIVING INTO THE COURSE AND DOING THE WORK THAT I STARTED TO HAVE DEEP INSIGHTS INTO MYSELF. I REALIZED ALL THOSE THINGS IN MY HEAD WERE JUST BELIEFS. THAT I COULD BE THE WILD AND SENSUAL WOMAN I CRAVE AND DREAM TO BE. I DON’T HAVE A LOW LIBIDO, AND I’M NOT DISINTERESTED IN SEX, I WAS BEING BLOCKED BY MY OWN MIND.
THAT SMALL SHIFT IN MINDSET COMPLETELY TRANSFORMED ME WITHIN A DAY. I FEEL LIKE I’VE FINALLY “WOKEN UP.” MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY PARTNER CONTINUES TO GET STRONGER AS I GROW STRONGER WITHIN MYSELF.
I’M SO GRATEFUL TO YOU ANGEL FOR OPENING THE DOORS AND SHOWING ME WHAT’S POSSIBLE."
Cat Holmes
WHAT'S INCLUDED:
The Five Layers of Touch
Begin with presence and play. This practice gently guides couples through eye gazing, shared breath, and progressively deeper layers of physical touch, from fingertip strokes to full-body holding. Clothes stay on, making this a safe, easeful reintroduction to embodied connection. It’s designed to awaken sensation, soften tension, and build subtle intimacy without pressure.
The Bliss Process
A guided massage ritual that moves up the body’s central channel, combining touch with breath to ground, awaken, and connect. Using simple, accessible language (no jargon), this practice invites full presence with each area of your partner’s body. Supporting emotional safety, nervous system regulation, and erotic attunement.
Lead & Surrender
Inspired by the art of command, this practice helps couples explore polarity, trust, and playful power dynamics. Each partner takes turns offering simple, consensual commands while the other responds. Inviting presence, direction, surrender, and fun. A powerful reset for couples wanting to explore deeper layers of intimacy and energetic connection.